also i'm obsessed with dean like. having a conversation with mary where he explicitly compares his relationship with cas to her relationship with john like. i do think that in dean's brain it makes perfect sense to think of him and cas as Like Married, But Platonic. like to compare them to a romance. and so dean matches mary story for story, one about john for one about cas. and then at the end mary is like "so you two are......." and dean is like "are what?" and mary is like *i died during the reagan administration voice* "........homosexuals?" and dean instantaneously passes away